In the back of the head of a tremendous men and women who are open-minded and would love to try out new things, having a threesome sounds always good to experience for once. However, due to the fear of judgement and the difficulty to actually make it come true, threesome dating always seems to be another erotic scene that can only be seen in the movies or novels. Yet being tempting, those willing participant who are looking for threesome are always stuck in the dilemma of a polyamorous dating and swinging lifestyle. Therefore the relationship counselor as well as a professor who teaches psychology in Tsinghua University has recently written an article to lay out all the pros and cons of threesome, with an effort to help us better understand kinky dating and bisexual dating, in the end, make a right decision for ourselves.
Pros: first of all, threesome is more than fun and erotic. Since it has long been regarded as a taboo or even shame in some conservative societies. For those who are tired of monogamous lifestyle, getting somethings mixed up with looking for a three way partner can definitely fire things up. That’s also why there has been an increasing number of couples seeking women and women seeking couples on couples dating app.
Threesome dating is also very motivating which permits to get rid of all the restrictions. Being under all the pressure and trying to act in a “socially acceptable way” have made us afraid to disobey the rules and so-called moral requirements. And for swingers, having a threesome frees you from all the restrictions and also motivates to to break the rules. Just as the slogan of one of the most famous tinder for threesomes/tinder for couples goes: “try to reinforce your sense of freedom needs? Try threesome.”
Last but not least, threesome makes you see things in a different way. As there are plenty of things in the world that we have been wondering about and haven’t alwasy get the chance, or more accurately, the courage to make the first step. Trying out threesome can be your first window of the world of unknown, which also helps you to experience the things that you missed while having your dear partner also included.
Cons: the most common problem that will arise during a three way relationship is jealousy. Thus before actually putting your idea into practice, the following points are of crucial importance: think twice if your partner is insecure; picking the right third participant who is compatible with both of you; be straightforward and understanding with your feelings.
Also, keep in mind that percentage wise, a great number of people regret having a threesome because of the future problems and conflicts with their partners. Thus think twice before make rush decisions since it’s more than hard to fix what’s has already done.
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